Grief ResponsesVersion en ligne Group what to say and what not to say to someone who is grieving. par Lisa Schilling-Kauten 1 What to say to someone who is grieving 2 What NOT to say to someone who is grieving 3 What to say to someone right after a death in the hospital “There are no words…but know I am here for you. My heart is with you.” “I wish I had the right words, just know I care.” “I don’t know how you feel, but I am here to help in any way I can.” “I will just sit here with you if that’s alright.” “I can’t know all you are going through, but I am with you and want to be a support in whatever way is needed.” “My favorite memory of your loved one is…” “I know how you feel” “He/she is in a better place now” “At least you have other children” or “you can always have more children” “It was God’s will”, “God has a plan”, or “Everything happens for a reason” “Don’t cry” or “You need to be strong now” “It could be worse. I know this person who . . ." “Would you like to spend some time alone with your loved one?” “Would you like to have our chaplain come see you?” “I can just sit here with you if like.” “Is there anyone I could contact for you?” “Should I be aware of any specific needs or rituals?” "Do you have any questions I could answer for you?"