Holiday
Dilemma
Dear
Lolita
I
expect
you
____________________
that
my
problem
is
really
silly
,
but
I'm
so
worried
that
I
____________________
.
You
see
,
I'm
going
on
holiday
with
my
boyfriend
for
the
first
time
,
and
I
don't
know
what
to
do
.
I
earn
much
more
than
him
,
and
I
know
he
____________________
with
paying
his
way
for
our
outings
and
restaurant
meals
.
Do
you
think
I
____________________
on
paying
most
of
the
bills
,
or
____________________
them
with
him
?
He
____________________
a
huge
student
loan
,
and
I
don't
want
him
to
get
even
more
in
debt
-
but
I
also
don't
want
to
damage
his
pride
.
Any
suggestions
?
Josie
,
Sheffield
Dear
Josie
You
are
a
very
thoughtful
young
woman
,
and
I
totally
understand
your
dilemma
.
I
think
you
____________________
your
boyfriend
pay
for
a
few
of
the
meals
,
but
not
all
of
them
.
That
way
he
retains
his
self
-
respect
.
Relationships
are
always
changing
,
and
there
____________________
a
time
when
the
roles
reverse
and
he
____________________
you
.
Anyway
,
in
this
day
and
age
,
any
intelligent
and
confident
man
____________________
any
issues
with
his
partner
earning
more
than
him
.
Love
Lolit
a