Because the person will want something in return. Like he'll expect you to have sex with them
B.
Because the person is trying to make you depend on them
C.
Because he'll try to manipulate you into moving in together
2.
If a person describes all their exes as crazy what does it mean?
A.
It means that he was extremely unlucky and now he's ready to start from scratch and build a commited well-balanced relationship.
B.
He is desperate to find a new partner and will do anything to lure you into his life.
C.
They haven't gotten over their ex yet. They're not ready for a new relationship. And your relationship will probably end the way their past relationship did.
3.
If a person is rude to the waiter what does it say about them?
A.
It doesn't mean anything. All of us are rude waiters from time to time
B.
It means that he's in the position of power and probably rich.
C.
It means they're narcissistic. They feel entitled and superior to other people.
4.
Their dating profile doesn't match who they are. Is it suspicious? Why?
A.
No, we all try to present our idealized version of ourselves on a first date.
B.
Yes. This person isn't self-aware, he's trying to pass himself off as someone else
C.
Yes. If he lies about his lifestyle he'll probably cheat on you in a relationship
5.
When should you be worried if your partner has anger issues?
A.
If the way they express their anger makes you feel unsafe.
B.
If they punch a wall or break household items.
C.
If they scream at you.
6.
What do the authors of the article mean by 'your partner doesn't listen to you'?
A.
They forget the name of your aunt Beverly's new husband again
B.
They forget to buy the eggs at the supermarket all the time
C.
They don't acknowledge significant aspects of your life like your passions, traditions and interests
7.
What's wrong with pushing physical boundaries?
A.
They will physically abuse you in the relationship.
B.
They won't take you seriously and respect your boundaries in the future.
C.
They're dangerous to be around.
8.
If your partner is constantly roasting you and putting you down, why is it a red flag?
A.
It's okay to roast each other with fun jokes in a relationship
B.
If he insults you it means that he secretly likes you. It' a way of flirting.
C.
If your partner uses excessive hurtful sarcasm, he's trying to lower your self-esteem to gain power and control over you
9.
What is gaslighting?
A.
A manipulation when your partner puts you down in order to gain control in a relationship.
B.
A manipulation when your partner makes your doubt your own reality and your actions. You think are the person to blame for everything and you feel ashamed.
C.
A feeling of being cut off from reality.
10.
Which of the following statements can be considered a prejudice?
A.
I hate meat. I don't eat it for ethical reasons.
B.
All women are gold-diggers (someone who's only motivated by money in a relationship)
C.
I don't like it when girls wear high heels. I prefer sneakers. But it's your choice, of course
11.
How do you know that your partner is possessive at an early stage of your relationship?
A.
They cling to you all the time, constantly text you and call you
B.
They are trying to control your every move
C.
When you take space for yourself they get angry with you cause they're unable to meet their emotional needs on their own.
12.
What should you do if you have past psychological traumas?
A.
Before you can start a healthy relationship, you should get rid your past traumas first.
B.
You should go to therapy and put off romantic relationships
C.
It's okay to start a relationship having past traumas as long as you don't rely on your partner as your only support and get professional treatment
13.
Why shouldn't you date someone who's at a very different life stage than you are?
A.
Because you'll have to make your partner's life goals a priority and forget about yours
B.
There will be constant arguments and conflicts in a relationship because your major goals don't match at the moment
C.
Because you will get sick of him really soon if he doesn't take your interests and goals into account
14.
Why isn't it okay to date someone who needs constant reassurance?
A.
Because insecure people feed on your energy
B.
a partner who needs constant reassurance puts a lot of pressure on you and your relationship. You won't be able to solve these problems for your partner
C.
If you're a confident person you won't feel comfortable around someone who has self-esteem issues
15.
Why is jealousy so dangerous?
A.
Because your boyfriend may snoop through your phone and cross your boundaries if he's jealous
B.
Because jealous people can't build wholesome balanced relationships
C.
Because the other person is trying to make you responsible for their feelings.
