d) forces you to take responsibility for their feelings
a) shows controlling behaviour
f) threatens you with physical violence
c) uses guilt as a tool
h) forces you to do things you don’t want to do
b) humiliates you
g) has a bad temper
e) gives you ultimatums
j) is always picking a fight
i) constantly checks up on you
7. makes you feel weak and small.
3. wants to make you feel that everything is your fault.
1. can’t get his/her way with words and resorts to violence
9. makes you feel bad for letting him/her
10. makes you do things you would rather not do.
1. can’t get his/her way with words and resorts to violence
2. demands that you text or send pictures to him/her while you are out.
4. tries to test your limits and see what you might be willing to apologise for.
6. becomes really angry over something that isn’t important to anyone else.
8. gives you a final warning to get what he/she wants